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What is really funny is that little twinge of jealousy usually pops up when you least expect it. Most people fear it will be on that first encounter sometimes it is sometimes it is not. It can happen to any person at any time. Even after many years of successful swinging sometimes something little and petty can just trigger it. All you can do is talk about it openly and work past it. Don't want to make a seen in front of others. Talk about it calmly when it is just the two of you. It will pass and you work through it. That is the bond that you share and grow together with.

Dear LikeMinds321 (and all others wanting an update), It's hard to believe that I first posted my question only a few weeks ago. I have come a long way in a short period of time. In terms of your question, we have been dating for 4 months. We see each other once every week or two. Yes, I have talked to him "about all this." (Everyone's advice here was very, very helpful -- as has been the advice I read on other discussion threads). He was amazed at and appreciated how much time and effort I spent learning about the lifestyle. We went to a club on Valentine's Day. I was nervous initially, but everything quickly became okay. He was attentive, and we went at my pace. We didn't meet any other couples with whom we would like to play, but we interacted with others and had a wonderful evening.