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The whole "women rule the swinging world" statement has a lot of connotations, one of which is the idea that women have to be the ones to do the approaching and that the men should sit idly by until they are approached. I know a lot of men who are shy and quite honestly a lot of women who are shy too... so I have a really hard time believing that most swinging men sit back and let them women take full control in swinging and wait for them the women to do the approaching. So what about it men? Are you willing and do you approach women you find attractive? Or do you send your wife over to do the approaching? Or do you wait for the other woman? And women (because I know some of you are reading this) what are your feelings? Do you feel that men should wait for you to approach them? How comfortable are you being the one to do the approaching?

And if he isn't into it, are you prepared for the looks you might get from the rest of the wait staff the next time you walk into the restaurant?

If he was eves dropping on your phone conversation, perhaps he felt you were suggesting he could deliver more to your newfound friend than he had to offer. If he feels he can't pull his end of the load, what better way to sink the party than to lay it off on you, even before the party commences?