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Well MrkLin, you're doing plenty of writing here. It may not be details of your sex play but people will know enough of what you do when you post on a swingers site and have a link to pictures on your Swing Lifestyle profile. You might as well add your SSN and active bank account number in your signature line here. If anyplace, the internet is the easiest way to expose yourself and you've done just that. Your Swing Lifestyle profile has plenty of public pictures that any relative, neighbor, co-worker or friend could identify you and your wife by. The fuzzy face thing doesn't keep you anonymous from those who already know you. So I'll turn your question back to you, You might not care what others think of you, but try to respect the others in your life. Why screw up their lives because you had to jot down some notes? You are definitely a notetaker, a journal keeper, and thousands of people who visit the Board each year have read what you've written and will continue to do so for years to come. A journal under a mattress has less significance or chance of affecting your life than your present exposure on the internet.

I enjoy it when my wife straps one on me. She only does it once in a great while as she is not very comfortable with it. I wish she was but I don't pressure her. I massage my ass almost everytime I shower. It makes me have an orgasm almost everytime just by rubbing the outside. She loves to massage my ass during sex. The cornhole is not about being a homosexual it is about sexual freedom with the one you love.

A long time ago, the wrong person got a hold of sexy stuff I had written. The priest got involved and made a big fuss to my family about what a sinner I was. I didn't feel like a sinner then and I sure as hell don't feel like one after all these years in swinging. But, the SOB did teach me one thing. He told me that it is never wise to put anything in writing that you would be embarrassed to see on the front page of the New York Times. Surely, I am breaking that rule by writing on this board. But, I would never have hard copy in the house of anything that I don't want my heirs to find if I get run over by the cement truck tomorrow. I have a Canadian lover, with whom I trade love letters regularly. She keeps a copy of everything. I used to, but I burned them a while back along with a diary about the swinging partners I had been with. I feel safer. A diary is a lot of fun, but there is risk.