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Ok, I tend to be a pretty trusting person, so if you say you just want to check out the club with this co-worker, then I won't bash you for wishing to do so. However, if you really feel like a visit to the club will help , I agree with the above posters who suggest you forget about the co-worker (she is just putting you on!), and just grab your girl and go. But, if you are still apprehensive about the whole swinging thing, maybe you should do a bit more exploring of the feelings of why you are apprehensive before throwing yourselves into the world of swinging by hitting the club. Obviously, there is no rule that says you have to go and play if you visit there, but if you are an overly jealous person or overly insecure person, how would you feel if you bring your girlfriend and she is getting hit on by other guys and girls alike? While no play is automatically expected of anyone, the general assumption, i think, of swingers clubs are that those who are there, are there to play. The same might be assumed of you guys, so some flirting probably will ensue. My suggestion is that you sit down with your girlfriend, explore the questions of the curious on this board. Do some serious conversating on the subject and explore the fantasies of the two of you being with other people before you ever venture into the club! Good Luck!!!