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You said: "I guess I have realized that I can fantasize but love my partner too much to share her" I say: I love my husband enough to share him. It takes a great amount of love, respect and trust to be involved in this lifestyle and only those people who truly have the most solid foundations can partake in these types of activies, without adverse consequences. It takes honest communication and mutual love and respect to be in the lifestyle. To us, it isn't about "servicing" or "getting serviced" - it is about adding another element to our sexual relationship and it is about sharing another type of experience together. We are good friends with a lady that we are involved with sexually. We met her during normal activities we are involved in - not on a website or at a club - over time our friendship progressed into a sexual relationship. My husband and I both get something out of it - I get to play with a female (which he obviously couldn't provide by himself) and he gets to have two women who's company he can enjoy (and as good as I am, I can't be in two places at once). Our friend gets the benefit of a man and a woman pleasuring her at the same time. It is a mutually beneficial relationship for everyone involved and no one is being "used" or "serviced" or "prostituted". The whole experience has brought my husband and I closer together and we are communicating better than we ever have.