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I submit this thought to you as I feel this is my reasoning for my need for activity. We have all been children on Christmas Eve. Each of us can recall that sleepless night when Santa was to slip down the chimney and deliver our gifts. We would lay in bed pondering what he would bring, hoping against hope one of the items would the that one that was so desired. We would envision ourselves playing with it, running through the house with it. We could feel it, taste or smell it even tho we had hours to wait before we could rush to the tree! Try as we might, most of us took quite a while to fall asleep that night. Even now, when we are expecting something wonderful or looking forward to an event or activity, our minds race the night/hours before. Although we are more controlled and able to maintain our composure, we still feel the excitement and for a period, inability to concentrate upon anything else. The excitement I feel for Mrs. CXXC’s activities stems from the knowledge that she will be experiencing pleasures from another person. This excitement is elevated by my knowledge that when she returns, we will share the entire night as she relays, to me, all the dirty little details. I do it for her, she does it for me. I also become extremely excited with the knowledge that Mrs. CXXC and I are going to engage in very hot and heavy sex. It always happens. Once the details of our adventures have been shared, we are lucky to take one breath before we are all over each other. You see, the temptation for me to call or text Mrs. CXXC is more a matter of, “What are you experiencing now?” than a matter of, “I don’t feel so comfy with her being with him/her without me and I should bug her to get her to come home sooner.” We encourage each other fully in these adventures. When we share each other in solo play, we want to be there, but realize that this is not a time for US but for them. I would love to be the fly on the wall watching and hearing everything. SURE!! Who wouldn’t? It is a great turn on to watch my wife be pleased by another. However, I also know that, as this is for her, I must not interfere and therefore keep my texts and calls away. I am very enthused about her playing solo. I simply want to share the experience with her. My desire for instant gratification is what prompts my thoughts to text and necessitates the ways to occupy myself.

Welcome to the 'dark' side of the lifestyle. During dozens of couples hookups we've had, every guy that has been with Mrs. Bum has whispered things in her ear that went beyond a casual sex relationship, that undoubtedly the guys would have never told their SO's. I laugh at it because it shows just how stupid it is for guys to take a good situation and turn it to sh_t, as this one has with you. Good for you that you have no interest in entertaining the thought of solo play; we've gone that route once and it still haunts us 3 years later; no cheating on our part, but the other males wife didn't know about certain 'goings on' and then a history about that couple surfaced at our local club; years of cheating and a whole host of other nonsense. If all 4 of you get along ok, then my advice is to remain silent on the solo proposition, but continue to have fun with them as long as everyone is on the same page. No doubt he will proposition you again solo, so your immediate reply is to be 'does ____ know about you wanting to play alone with me?' He should probably shut up about it in a NY minute unless she does know, and if that's the case simply reply 'while I'm flattered, we only play with couples, as a couple.'