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I'm going to be going to a club this weekend with a theme. I've been there twice before several years ago but I don't recall they had anything special going on. I'm so excited because the theme happens to be the same as the costumes I made for Halloween last year and even though my dress when to the floor I think I was sexy as hell. I was specifically looking to see people generally dressed in the themes and was disappointed to see that themes don't go over as well as I hoped. At first I thought I don't want to stick out like a sore thumb (hence looking for a thread like this) but with more thinking it's part of my personality to dress up and just have fun with it. Unlike halloween I'll be putting more energy into what's UNDER my costume

Looking back my husband brought up the idea in a kinda clumsy, lovable way and I shot him down completely. In my opinion a woman who isn't ready just isn't ready - yet. What I mean is we all grow at different speeds and had he not introduced the idea - the seed- I would never have ever gotten to the point where I let another man touch me in front of my husband. It took me years to accept the idea and my guy was relentless but not pushy. He pushed the idea without being too pushy. I was nonetheless opposed to the idea for a lot of reasons. I suggest you come to terms with either never swinging with her or waiting until she comes around on her own terms. I really appreciate my husband hung in there, no pun intended, and now we are on the same page. To assume that two people would agree on this subject the first time it is brought up is possible but I have been on a lot of forums and spoken to a few people who have similar experiences. It takes TIME and you must be patient. If you are patient and it was meant to be then you will be rewarded.

Almost everyone has a hobbie or two AND almost everyone enjoys sex. If we take that as a given, let's look at possibilities. 1-Husband golfs on Saturdays/wife goes to lunch with girlfriends. 2-Husband plays poker on Wednesday night/wife plays bunko. 3-Husband goes fishing all weekend/wife cleans house. 4-Husband surfs the internet/wife tends flower beds. 5-Husband & wife go out together to movies. Find place to park, wait in line to buy ticket, sit for two hours next to people they don't know, pay top dollar to eat or drink while listening to wierd interupting conversations around them. Drive home. 6-Husband & wife go shopping. (maybe fun 'til credit card bill comes next month) 7-Husband & wife find a fun couple to play with. Husband & wife enjoy anticipation of first meeting. Husband & wife live out fantasies most only dream of. Husband & wife relive best parts of "living fantasy" through memories and conversations later. Gee Wally? I will have to think about whether swinging is worth it or not???? Let me get back to you on this after more research...