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I have nothing to add other than read Chicup's post. Then read it again, talk about it, read it again, and talk some more. Mr NC always picks on me for over-analyzing freaking every single thing in life. However, when it came to swinging, this was one area that I forced myself NOT to over-analyze. Why? Because none of it would do me any good until we were faced with the true possibility of having sex with other people. We only swing together in the same room. For us, we do not want to have sex without the other there. It's about us, together, as a couple. We don't want to just have sex, if we dd we would consider an open marriage. We wanted to explore, together. You truly do not know how you will feel about it until you watch another woman having sex with your husband. Period. It didn't feel anything like I thought it would. Why? Cause you really just can't picture it or think about it or know what it's like until you do it. So you have to decide if together you want to risk the chance. Mrs NC