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I have to agree with fun4Ds on his experiences in identifying who "she would go for". It was a fun game to play the first couple times we went to a club, but got old quick when I realized I didn't have a clue in what she liked or was attracted to. Same goes for Mrs two4you. There's just too many variables. I'll also agree that the one thing all the guys she is into have in common, is that they are the type of guys that I could hang out with, and feel comfortable around. Bottom Line: Go and have fun. Keep the expectations to a minimum. Don't make a bunch of boundaries just so you can say you have them. Make the boundaries in conjunction with something you are truly uncomfortable with. It keeps things simple and easier to comply with. It's OK to let folks know you're new to swinging. Most will take a genuine interest in making you feel comfortable and respecting your limits. Meet as many people as you can, and don't be a wallflower. Have a great night, and let us know how it goes!