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Okay, I wanted to come in from a perspective that doesn't seem to be represented here, a teen/young adult daughter. I'm in my early 20's childless and while going to college, live with my parents. I'm also studying child and adolescent development and have been going over traits of different age groups and how to best handle difficult situations. I just wanted to ring and help you see what might be going on in her head and how you could help make this less scary. Her finding out is probably, from her point of view, weird and creepy. Most people don't like thinking about their parents having sex period, let alone something considered 'deviant' in western culture. Add on that teens feel weird and secretive about sex and parents in general in our culture and you have a trifecta of uncomfortableness that can make her feel confused, grossed out, angry or victimized. (I'm not saying these feelings are justified, just that teens her age are physiologically prone to having poor impulse control, ego centered thinking and elevated emotions from all the crazy hormones.) She might act out, threaten to blackmail you, or generally behave inappropriately because she is uncomfortable with the information. As stated in the thread, she has privacy/snooping issues and is controlling in your household, which you are working on. Keep on that, and try to stress honesty as well as privacy. These two need to be closely related. You can be private about things, and have respect for privacy and still be honest. Privacy doesn't have to mean secrets, it just means respect for things that we keep to ourselves because our culture teaches it (that sex and sex practices ,as well as other subjects- money, mental illness ect.) are something to be discrete about. Really try to teacher her by example, respect her privacy, but ask her to be honest when it counts. Also, while setting up privacy boundaries, like 'don't search through my purse/phone without permission' you could also give her every day situations that allow her to see in 'private places' in sanctioned circumstances. For example when my mother is driving and I am in the passenger seat and she wants something from her purse, she has no problem asking me to fish something out for her. This gives me permission to go in her purse and see what is in there with her permission without it being a big deal. It's nothing special, just purse stuff, lipstick, wallet, normal, but it takes away the mystique from her purse. Only when something is 'forbidden' do we feel we have to sneak around and get information clandestinely. So while she needs to know that some things are private, it doesn't have to mean 'secretive' or 'forbidden' it is just polite to respect others spaces. You could also do this by having her answer your phone/check a text when you know it is 'safe' (my mom does this again when we are in the car and she's generally sure it's Dad calling about dinner/grocery plans) to make your cell phone less 'forbidden' and with your bedroom by having her fetch something that is in there, the house phone, some shoes, whatever. It lets her see it in a way that is allowed for a specific window of time and for a specific reason but still satisfies her curiosity. Privacy is hard for teenage girls, cattiness and sneakiness is very common, just try and do your best, lead by example, make punishments that fit the crime and stick to those punishments. Also praise her when she does well. Many teen girls crave real simple praise, just a little ‘thanks for doing the dishes’ or ‘I’m glad to see you’re doing so well in History’ could go a long way. I would like to respectfully disagree with the general consensus on one subject: Your sex life IS your daughters business. No it does not mean that you have to stop, it doesn't mean that you need to go into detail, but you DO need to be honest with her. Telling her 'it's none of your business' is a big fat 'forbidden' sign, which makes her want to snoop. Privacy is about respecting a person and their boundaries, but as parents it is your job to show her, by your example, how to be loving, and have relationships. Children, especially her age are learning their views on love, sex and relationships from you. Yes, friends and the media influence her a lot, but ultimately children tend to imitate their parents relationships. If a part of your romantic life is forbidden it will freak her out and she will act out. Worse than that, her forming opinion about relationships will include shady, forbidden pieces and it could cause a lot of confusion for her forming ideals about relationships; and lead to poor decisions. Even if it is uncomfortable for both of you, you need to be the ones to open a line of communication. If you don't want to speak face to face, try electronically, by text or email. Answer what she asks, I can almost promise you it won't be graphic unless she is in a fighting mood and using the questions to try to shame you. Don't be shamed. You are adults, you are humans and therefore sexual beings. You may be doing something outside the norm, but if you are being safe and sane about it, there is no need for it to be a 'forbidden subject' even if the only thing making it forbidden is your not wanting to talk about it because of embarrassment. Being untruthful to her will lead to her being untruthful to you. It could also lead to stress and freak everyone involved out. I understand that being honest could cause many of those feelings also, but at least there is communication, which leaves the door open to understanding and 'grown up' ways of handling things. And really, if you don't feel that what you are doing is something you can let those closest to you know about, even discretely, then you shouldn't be doing it. I feel like I went out on a huge limb here saying my point of view, so if you disagree, just please be civil. I realize that I am young, childless and lack experience, but I just wanted to help support the daughter's side. She sounds like a hard one to live with, but it doesn't make her feelings invalid.

G continues to pump K, my wife, for about 10 minutes non stop, her pussy getting wetter and wetter. G suddenly changes his technique, slowing down but inserting his penis all the way down so that his short-trim pubic hair brushing on to K’s clitoris and while keeping his meat fully inserted in her pussy, G moving his hip forward a few short strokes just as he likes to insert more into my wife’s pussy. This move drives K crazy, moaning : “ooooohhh” while hissing continuously. I am standing behind G, stroking my cock, bending down so I could see my wife pussy is stretched out to the max. I can clearly see her vagina skin tightly wrapped around G’ cock just like a thick elastic band. After another 10 minutes, G stopped and invited me to take my turn. K just lay there with her legs still wide open, her juice trickling down to her anus., she looks soooo fulfilled, her eyes look like she is day dreaming. I knee down and inserted my penis inside her pussy…. Oh it feels so warm, probably because of the friction between her vagina and G’s cock during action, I can never forget this warm feeling. My penis is above average size, 7’ long , my base is not as thick as G, but I have a bigger mushroom, so when I inserted it in I still feel tight despite the wetness of her pussy. I am so aroused that after about 5 minutes pumping I have to stop otherwise I will ejaculate and no more fun. I invite G to continue his action. G smiles to me and jump right in. To tell the truth, I enjoy watching them going at it more than I am actually pumping my wife. This time G is doing it very rigorously, pumping in and out fast and shaking his hip occasionally, after about 15 minutes, G is about to come, he let out a distinctive hum, in the meantime K is coming too, I can see her hands tightly gripped to G’s wrists, they both came together. Look at that scene, I feel so aroused, stroking my meat continuously, and when G withdrew his cock out of my wife pussy, I can see his cum oozing out, I immediately inserted my cock into my wife pussy and pumping very hard. I can hear “ Baff…baff…baff…” the sound of my cock base hitting my wife pussy, and I came in about 3 minutes. When I withdrew my cock I can see K’s pussy is full with 2 men cum. K yelled out: “that’s the best fuck EVER!!!” That’s my awesome experience doing MFM bareback, I can see my wife pussy filled with 2 loads of cum. And I thank K for shaving her pussy clean that I can see clearly without any obstacles … ☺ There are a lot more to come, but my post is too long already. I will continue in the next topic because K did learn a good technique from G that she told me later. And remember, what I post here is just what happened in the first 2 hours and we plan to stay overnight with G ….. ☺