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Ok, now that that one was addressed let's get on to answering the OP Your wife needs to feel trust IN you... not to judge, not to ridicule, and to accept what she says. And yes, the Other post, apparently it WAS there, but, it was way out of our ballpark How about trying a simple exercise and see how it works.. As foreplay, ask her to close her eyes and Imagine.. throw a scenario or two at her, Friends, Celebrities, Characters from TV or Movies... Get the ball rolling and then interject asking what they are doing now.. or what she is doing with them.. See how that goes... add in a few toys to simulate another person.. and what her reactions.. if she gets freaked out. STOP immediately. If she reacts positively, go slow and add more.. or more another time. Do not try fantasy play every time you get in bed, but use it to enhance your lovemaking, and if she gets the idea that Hey maybe it would be even better with another playmate. Best of luck.

I have read all the comments that you have gotten. I just want to say that a have been in your position for the last 25-30 years. My wife has never been open with me. She has never felt comfortable undressing in front of me. She still will cover herself if I come into the room and she is dressing. Our sex life has been non-existent since the birth of of our last child 40 years ago. We are in our sixties. I have a big craving fr sex. That's why I am here and why I am on many sites looking for sex. Over the years I have even asked her to have sex with other men, she refused but at times likes the idea. I took her to lounges so men would pick her up, she refused them. I tried to get her into a lesbian encounter, she backed out. We once viewed a tape of women getting fucked by dogs. She always enjoyed the idea of getting fucked doggy style. I offered to get her a dog, and she said yes, but when the dog wanted to mount her she just teased him but never did anything. When we did have sex she wanted me to pretend I was a doberman fucking her doggy style. Today she will not try anything sexually. She knows I am out looking for women, she does not object. She says she is too dry and will never have sex. I am thinking of leaving her, she tells me to go ahead if that's what I want to find women. She never wanted counseling because she felt it was nobodies business. My kids think I am a sex addict because she has led them to believe all I do is chase women. All I would say is get your divorce, if you really want to enjoy sex in your remaining time. Your biological clock is running down.