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Hello all, Hope this doesn't sound a little "ranty" but... here goes. My wife and I have recently put up a very "curious for now" profile on a site and are starting to look at couples and... we have a question. Why do so many of the profiles out there show no pics and/or have very limited descriptions of their men-folk? It's often "she's 36-24-36 and has sexy long legs, beautiful eyes, and a great smile; he's got a great personality and loves to laugh." Okay maybe that was extreme, but just making the point... *Chuckle* We love great personalities... and believe we would value the chemistry factor outside of sex to an extent, but what we both really want is to have some physical attraction first. I mean... this is about sex, right? We look through profile after profile and there will very often (on the majority of the profiles or so it seems) be a pic of the hot lady in various sultry poses and provocative attire, usually without a face pic (and that's totally understandable), but we'd have to say that there's typically not even a torso shot of the male, and very often a VERY limited description of him. She's just wanting a glimpse of the guy before she's even curious about them. She's not Bi, although she enjoys the look of a hot lady, and thinks about the possible pleasure of enjoying the touch of one, she is more (almost strictly) interested in the male first. We're thinking the same types of thoughts, that possibly the man in the profile is not as easy on the eyes as his lady is, and because of that the profilers are attempting to attract on the basis of those sexy lady legs that are their default picture. Or the male is maybe in a high-profile job and doesn't want anyone to recognize a tattoo or a shirt he wore at the office? Perhaps it's because a large majority of the profiles indicate a Bisexual female and are hoping on mutual attraction based on her gorgeous backside? We really don't know... and don't want to assume. So... what's the reasoning behind that trend? We'd rather ask you guys than keep wondering. It's a show-stopper for us more often than not. The profiles that have caught both of our interests have a couple torso shot, or if they're less concerned with anonymity, have posted full pictures of both members, or both of them with just the faces blotted out, or even those without pics that have what seem to be accurate descriptions of both of them, as in, equal treatment. We're learning... teach us oh wise ones. The underlying tone here from both of us is... we need to see your man! Please? Anyone else have similar thoughts or a feel for the reasoning behind this?