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OK...this is going to sound weird...but...so does three guys, two dogs and four ladies in a tent...I don't know if anyone has tried that...I haven't...but I digress. I guess that I would say that I've always believed in sort of .....karma...superstition...whatever. But I'm a technically trained person, you know...logic, the experimental method, hypothesis, experiment, validation etc. One of my reservations, as we move into the world of swinging...is...well...karma. In my personal experience, I know a few people who are addicted to porn. It seems as though nothing goes good in their life. They're divorced, they don't have good jobs, they don't have good relationships with their kids...they're nice people...but their lives aren't "together". I guess that my emotional side is still fighting the feeling that, if I get far into swinging, my kids will turn from straight A students to shiftless cravens, I won't be able to hold down a job and I'll live in a run-down shack on welfare...although...with the state of the economy we all could be in the last boat. My technical side looks at this forum as a way to "experiment" and ask the question to a large group of people....so how have your lives been since you started swinging? If there is such a thing as karma...has it bitten you in the ass...or has it smiled down on you?