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The path swinging doesn't have to follow a script. If you love her, let her start playing ahead of you. Ask her how she would like to play with other men, discuss it, then to show her how much you love her by letting her without immediate expectations of reciprocity. That's essentially what my husband did for me and I loved him all the more for it. It took several years, but I overcame my jealousy in an ephiphany one day and now he plays too, and it is a real turn-on for me. As a bonus his current gf has become my play partner as well, introducing us to a wonderful world I hadn't considered before. All this happened because hubby was unselfish when I would never had moved ahead.

My wife 25 and I 35 had the exact same issue as you as I am older than her I had more of a chance to explore than she did as we got together when she was 18 she had only had one partner as opposed to my endless list of forgotten names. I not unlike yourself decided that she should get a chance to "enjoy life" and also not unlike you the thought of her being with another man was a huge turn on. Though she did not understand that at first and thought I was making up...and also thought that I would change my mind once I saw her engaged in the act. Well that was 4 years ago... since then we have enjoyed many party's, clubs and even some of our own friends. The jealousy issue has not changed sad to say over those four years though, I have had the occasion to get to play one time with the wife of another couple (that are friends and swingers that we knew outside of swinging) though it was sanctioned by the wife... after everything was said and done she could not get passed her jealousy. We still enjoy the HotWife aspect a lot (and I do mean a lot) after all we got into this for her to explore and me to enjoy watching her explore. I kinda figured that she may change her mind one day... maybe she will maybe she will not. I though had never set my expectations on the fact that she will change her mind so if she doesn't I'll be just happy being a voyeur. So that may be just something to keep in mind.