Cute, I was really thinking about things that could be fixed......
"Why?" -- Their answer: "Your profile text makes you look dumber than dirt... can't you use a spell checker?"
"Why?" -- Their answer: "That picture makes you look like an Ugnaught"
"Why?" -- Their answer: "You profile makes it appear that only one of you is interested in swinging."
Your examples are a bit "off," too, because those deal breakers should be in the profile.... If she is only turned on by bald smokers that are over 5'-10", there's just no way I'm going to bother to write in the first place: a "Why?" would most certainly never be needed.
OTOH, if the profiles look a lot like mirror images and you get a "no interest," then a "this is why" would go a long way in erasing a huge WTF?
Wordsmithing a profile is difficult enough; never getting feedback on how the reader perceives the profile makes it nearly impossible. It is a lot like trying to learn to shoot baskets in a totally dark gym......
Maybe those mirror image profiles really weren't..... we just thought they were......