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I've been doing a lot of thinking and soul-searching after starting this thread and reading all the replies, and it's truly changed my perspective. I had let other people stuff my sense of a sexual self into a box and they watched while I locked it away in the basement. Now I have complete freedom to let it out, not only for my own development into a whole person but also to have fun in this lifestyle. I realized that my confidence problem wasn't that women weren't paying attention to me, it was that I wasn't paying attention to myself. When I shut off my sexual identity, I also shut off both my sense that anyone could be attracted to me and also my identity as an attractive person. I had become all but literally blind and deaf to their interest. No wonder when my wife said she saw women looking at me I couldn't see it. And when someone would complement my appearance, it fell on deaf ears. Now I'm thinking back on the past 15 years, remembering the comments that people have made about me. And you know what? That whole time, there was only one, ONE, person who has ever insulted my looks. And that's stacked up against comments like "X and I think you look like Gavin Rossdale", "Isn't he cute, Z?", and "You and your wife look like members of the Cullens!" (from Twilight ), among many others. When girls wouldn't go out with me in high school, it was because I was a snobby, morally uptight, neurotic mess. They liked my looks (though I dress a lot better now), but not what was underneath them. But high school me is long gone. I have come so far from where I used to be. And you know what else? Yesterday, when I looked in the mirror, I actually liked what I saw.

I have always been optimistic and have tried to encourage people to follow their dreams but this is one you should think long and hard about. Before you put lots of money into building a website, there are hundreds of existing dating scripts out there and a few can be 100% customized and even one I was talking with coupleerotic about that is open source that would give you lots of flexibility because ... it's open source. Just google dating scripts. If you want my advice, skadate has one of the best scripts I have found for flexability and the removing of all branding is included and total cost is about 350.00 bucks unless you want the addon's like the mobile version. We looked into opening a dating website 4 years ago but after reading about all of the failed dating websites out there (this was 4 years ago) we abandoned it. Even sites that have been around for years are still struggling to survive. I still say, if it's your dream then go for it but keep the day job. There are 1000's of existing dating websites currently out there that cover every fetish, race, religion, hobby, etc. Nothing is impossible but hard as hell would be an understatement.

I can tell you that I am a male and I am constantly thinking about sucking a male and enjoying his cum. I personally think most women would be extremely turned on by watching their husband/partner sucking another man.

I love this thread. I am very turned on by the bisexual man on man oral action. I love to guide my husband's head. I love that he is so brave to do it in front of me and show me a part of himself that can be hard for men to show in society. I appreciate guys who feel it isn't their bag, but I have no interest in playing with a man unless there's going to be bi male on male action. I want to see the big show! Hah!

For me, it's a bit different. I have a kinky side where I like to dress in stockings and heels. Only when I'm dressed up, I have a desire to suck a cock. However my wife doesn't want me to go down on her regular lover. I guess she's the jealous type. The closest I got was during one MFM with my wife's regular lover, when they asked me to dress up, so I obliged. Since he never had a MFF, this was the closest he could get. I was on top of her in the missionary posistion and he was standing next to the bed. Her head was turned and she was sucking his cock. I was kissing her check and his cock was just inches from my face. I figured that if she let it slip from her mouth, I would immediately take it in. Unfortunately, she is very "talented" and I never got that opportunity.