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Something I have to say from the start: If I immediately like a guy, he can be shy, expressive, or aggressive - it doesn't matter - because I like him I am open to anything he says or does. If I immediately don't like a guy, he can be shy, expressive, or aggressive - it doesn't matter - because I don't like him I won't be open to anything he says or does. This may sound confusing, and it is to a degree, but I'm hoping other women know what I'm saying. I don't know that I've discussed this before, but with me, the same 'line' can come out of two different guys and with one guy - the guy I like - I think he is the funniest, smartest, sexiest guy, but when it's said by the guy - who I don't like - I think he's trite, dull, and unsexy. You got to Be, Do, and Say what feels natural for you. Some women will think you're the greatest, others won't. And how do I "immediately" like or not like a guy? Beats me how it works.

The comparison isn't about sucking cock. The comparison is about trying new things. It's ludicrous to believe that people out there are straight just because they don't want to suck cock. I don't think that that is the missing link as to why men consider themselves straight. Secondly, you're the only one that brought up bestiality: Just so I'm on the same page here, are you just arguing for the sake of being argumentative? My original question wasn't, "why are bi men posing as people who secretly like to suck cock because society has told them it's a no-no, but they want to pin themselves against the mold." It also wasn't, "what is the real reason than men are posing as straight males." It was more like, "why are you saying you are one thing but really you are doing something entirely different?" Either way, now you are comparing oral sex to something drastic. no one else in this thread has mentioned that oral sex is this horrible act against nature. Probably because they understand my question, but whatever. Yeah... I can very much confirm that peanut is most definitely a woman. I can also confirm that she gives amazing head.

Ummm... Peanut's a girl. you might want to read things more carefully before you respond.

Humanity has a special "thing" for the act that results in procreation. Your question is sort of like "What's the big deal about rape? It's better than getting punched in the nose." Although there are differences to be sure. I understand. No flames please! I'm on your side! It's just in a special category. I like it!

How is doing something that you don't want to do, purely because someone else wants you to, a good thing? I would be horrified to learn that my wife did something she actively disliked just to make me happy. That is a bad thing. Hell, I'd be bummed if she did something she was indifferent about just to make me happy. I have way more fun with her when we're both doing something we're excited about and love to do. I want to focus on that, not compromising what one of us wants for the sake of the other.