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Actually, its DON'T TELL UNTIL ASKED, that's why so many have to be asked directly Appliance, there are people that yes are definitely in the closet and as was pointed out on the previous page and brought home again by NCMD COUPLE.. Bisexuality among males in the lifestyle is evolving, and in some circles as Chicup's responses show, Just as with many of the clubs or on site venues still consider it unacceptable. What's at odds is, as your complaint stated plainly, listing as straight, and inquiring about bi play. They contact you because you are open enough to list yourself as you do. I cant remember the thread, but a year or so ago, there was a lovely poster who was honest about herself here, but explained that she lists herself as straight, but is open to bi play. She stated she listed herself that way to preclude being EXPECTED to play bi. She was honest and said something to the effect that, if she felt the desire, and the other party was willing.. it was golden.. If I recall correctly no one really raised a eyebrow, or complaint. I agree, I do not like the idea of getting naked with someone who is deceptive about ANYTHING regarding this lifestyle. Because it leads to the next logical question What else aren’t they open about? That's why the conversation stages and ASKING questions directly, as to why they list themselves one way or another, and GAUGING the answers is so important. We are here because we enjoy a different kind of life, and an openness about sex. The patent pending term we use is SEXPLORATION. for anyone to begin that, they have to be willing to discuss what they are into.. with themselves and then with others. It doesn't matter if the topic is Bi Sex, Anal Sex, or Any other sex. That honesty has to start between the ears.. Not between a playmates legs. If you cant talk about what you want.. you aren’t going to get there.. And that brings us back to the topic... Hiding in the closet, you either get past the coats... or stay in the dark.