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A couple of thoughts here The simple fact of the matter is that pushing anything where your spouse is opposed could cause divorce. Substitute the issue of money, kids, job choice, or whether to live near your mother (hehe) and many can and do find themselves in a situation. In those cases, you have to make a decision, be it forgo the issue, compromise, or move on. You need to decide. I did re-read your question and I did have a slightly different take. Are you saying you actually want to get into swinging/group sex or simply share fantasies with your wife about those things. For many the idea of simply talking about swinging, watching swinger related porn, etc, are enough to give them a sexual spark and they never pursue the real thing. If your wife is resistant to sharing sexual fantasies vs. acting on them, then you may want discuss that more with her as a topic rather than any particular scenario. Couples counseling to discuss needs, etc, may be an option. At the end of the day she may not want to even discuss your sexual fantasies in which case you find yourself back into what that means for you and your life. 28 years is an awesome achievement for two people, but only you can answer whether you are fundamentally happy. Be careful though, the grass may seem greener on the other side as they say...

I went to a local drug store and noticed a lady who looked familiar, but couldn't place her. She reminded me who she was... worked as my secretary about twenty years ago. I wasn't stalking her, I promise. Alura