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As a single man, all I can say is approach this as meeting a single man who just happens to swing. If you were an avid camper, biker, skydiver, rodeo clown, professional wrester and wanted to meet someone to do these things with, you would look at the person first and the activity second. As long as you are smart you can find a single male swing partner without being afraid of the stalkers, clingers, and players. Single men who swing are just like single men who don't swing. Some are good, some are bad, some are arrogant, some are shy, etc. Just don't get it into your head that all single guys who swing have something wrong with them and you usually won't meet the ones who have something wrong with them. good luck.

I think it means too many newbies have watched "Pretty Woman" and have erroneously associated kissing with a superior level of intimacy over any other sexual activity. And if they uphold the rule, its their loss really. Just another example of the way American media stifles our sex lives.