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Swingers like everything is changing the access to the lifestyle is easier and more couples are wetting their feet. With that you also have married men posing as singles and idiots running around the internet wasting time and generally pissing off couples by playing stupid games. Do I sound bitter, I should cause we are just plain sick of the constant emails that lead no where, people who seem intelligent but are totally unable to comprehend the written word. It has gotten to the point where I have decided to stop being Mr nice and just say what it is I'm thinking, will it win me friends , doubt it, but it will get rid of the game players quicker. When we attend a club now we go with no expectations except that we are going home with each other. I believe we have only been to a club once when we didn't have sex and that was due to the fact that single men that night were allowed in and a pack of guys following you masturbating was making the wife very uncomfortable. Perhaps we are very picky but unless we both have an attraction we will just have sex with each other, we are in this to enhance our sex life not to put notches on the bed post. I can honestly say we aren't lookers as we stroll around naked and don't bother with the towels. Our biggest concern is HIV and other STDs as their is a large amount of bi males in our area and constant press releases that STDs are making a large comeback in our area in the male Bi/gay areas. This from a site catering to this demographic, the biggest eye opener is a local swingers club is actively attracting males from this site to attend on their nights when single men are allowed in, even giving a discounted entry fee when they use the name of the site. All this is doing is giving married men who may have been looking for a blowjob from some other guy a venue to chase females, and then the wife will never know. So the next time you see a couple who seem to just be over cautious they may have a valid reason. Until we both agree on a couple and know their habits somewhat we will be rather happy to just sit back and watch for a bit.