from Oklahoma, Violet! We're glad you've joined us and hope your husband will, too. The wonderful folks here, as you've already learned, are wise and very glad to help.
Swinging is not about fulfilling needs, just about having fun.
You'll never find anyone who can give you what your husband can give you, because love is involved. Swinging is about fucking, not loving. Once we learn the difference between "making love" and "making whoopie" and can separate sex from love, we all seem to find out that a spouse can't give us the "delicious naughtiness" swinging can, either.
We hope we'll hear a lot from y'all!