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The thing is, To be a swinger, you have to trust your partner will not develope emotional ties with another. Casual sex means just that, casual. Along with the trust issue, it really pissed me off that it was her EX. If she wanted to fuck him, why did they split up? She has told me he was a lousy lover and husband, at least a dozen times. I asked her about it and she said that she wouldn't have had sex with any other of the guys there, but that it was a "goodbye", fuck, because she knew that they wouldn't be doing it any more, since we were getting engaged. what kind of BS is this? BTW, LizandTom, do you think a swinger can become a non-swinger and be happy ? I still think that this is Bull.

Don't let your differences bother your arrangement until it permeates into your 'playtime'. There are ignore/hide functions on facebook, so you don't have to even see their political diatribes. You also have the freedom and duty to let him know that the next time he feels the need to inject a political opinion you outwardly oppose, its unappreciated and it definitely won't do your 'FWB arrangement' any justice. If he can't understand your need for political discretion, then that's a lack of mutual respect and he (and his wife) aren't worth your time anyway. You guys aren't in a poly relationship are you? Don't waste too many emotions over this...seriously. Be who you are; demand reciprocated respect.