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Well said Chicup! Lord knows there's a lot of diversity and disparity in couples both in the lifestyle and out. Thankfully that means there's something for everyone. I agree on creating a profile that reflects who you are, that is filled out in detail and has been run through Spell Check. Many many people block "free" profiles as well as profiles with no photos and pay zero attention to a profile with just the basics filled in. Remember you get one chance to make a first impression. Take the time to read as many profiles as you can and let that help you when creating your own. I am not suggesting "copying" but if you're struggling to write try make notes of things you read that others say and tailor that to represent who YOU are. In searching profiles read them carefully, before writing be sure they suit your needs and that you both meet any expectations they have as well. SLS also has many groups for support, advice and specific preferences...get involved. Check out local parties and meet/greets ...if you can't wow them on paper dazzle them in person...if nothing else you'll make a bunch of like minded friends. Mrs Sav