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The Lifestyle offers something for everyone, all shapes, all sizes and all ages. I'd suggest before judging others you take a long hard look in the mirror...does everyone want to see YOU naked? Are you perfect? Got all your teeth and a full head of hair; no slight beer belly but 6 pack abs? For that matter you might think your wife is incredibly hot but I'm betting at in least half of any group She isn't their type either... that's the reality, EVERYONE has a preference. So many times I see perfectly ORDINARY people looking for these perfect beautiful people to fulfill their fantasies and then complaining they can't meet anyone. Unless you're one of those PERFECT couples chances are you wouldn't be their first choice either. My theory is if that little hottie would not have given you a glance in your youth and prime why would she want you now? Be realistic in your expectations. You say you're soft swingers and have no desire to swap, the lifestyle has a wide range of people just like you so I do not see that as a problem but clearly you will need to adjust your expectations when going to a party because the majority of the people that attend are normal people just like you. It is no different than REAL LIFE...look around you ; everyone is different and there is something for everyone. If you really only want to see beautiful people naked so you can watch them have sex...I'd suggest sticking to Porn. Mrs Sav