Girl on girl play is very common in the lifestyle. However, I'm in your position of really being interested in men most of the time. Whenever we are talking to a couple we like (if we think they like us) I make sure to get my preferences out in the open before things progress very far. I always ask if girl-girl play is a requirement or even a priority. If it is, then I just let them know they'll do better with another couple. We have met plenty of compatible couples this way. You will too, I'm sure.