My husband and I have an open relationship, so I have a boyfriend on the side. One afternoon I messed around a little with him. He played with himself until he was hard. I don't remember seeing any precum or any fluid at all. He did put his fingers inside of me after playing with himself, but he may have touched clothing and other things before doing so. We did not have sex. He did orgasm sitting next to me, but never touched me again after that and I did not come into contact with any body fluids. I took a fertility test that day and it was negative.
Later that night my husband and I had sex and did not use protection and he ejaculated inside of me. I did not realize I was close to ovulating because it was really late in my cycle and my temps have been wacky. I ovulated for sure the day after or two days after the encounter w/ bf and husband.
I did end up getting pregnant that week and I'm now 7 weeks along. Everything I have read says that there is no semen in precum unless a recent ejaculation happened, which it did not. My husband is the only person I had actual unprotected sex with and was definitely exposed to semen.
I am just looking for some reassurance that it most likely is my husbands baby. I don't want to worry myself sick for the next 8 months! This makes me seriously reconsider this lifestyle.