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We have LS friends that have met our kids on vanilla dates. Pizza is usually the food of choice, lol. We already knew them and had become friends. Our kids just look at them like any of our other friends, as far as they are concerned there is no difference. I don't think I would be comfortable bring the kids along early in a relationship, certainly not first date. We have some other friends who we have not played with YET, both the other couple and us want to me for drinks and dinner to get to know each other a bit better without the kids first. We have known them for a while but have only met at socials. She is school teacher with kids around the age of ours and we have discussed the families getting together for regular vanilla stuff. And we probably will. I think it is a bad idea if: 1) You do not know the couple very well, particularly first M&G 2) If they other couple is too out of the closet and their kids know and yours don't 3) The other couple cannot keep the conversation away from swinging, and I mean even innuendo and flirting too much. 4) The other couple is strictly a play couple, you nothing in common in a vanilla setting or have never met in a vanilla setting. 5) If you have ANY concerns what soever, even unfounded concerns, I would not bring my kids near them.