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I could do this. Really, there are worse things in the world than being the guinea pig while someone learns oral. Can be even more fun if Mr. funcoupledayton wants to help teach. If you approach as less of a swing date and more of a training session you make everyone else at ease. And if your student does well, be sure to reward them in kind.

Susan here-- Well, you replaced sexual intimacy with the thrill of sexual acts. The latter is more thrilling in the short term, yet if that's all you get, it's like candy, too much of a good thing and you've forgotten the importance of dining on good food. Take a break from swinging and reconnect with your sensual selves. Touching, sensualness with a buildup to a great sexual encounter and it's just you two. It has effected you because you let it effect you. It snuck up on you like an addictive drug. Sex can be VERY addictive. Good luck reconnecting with what is truly important.

Thank you for the positive spin on the situation!!

Susan here-- It can take sex to a level of greater emotional engagement. This would seem to lend itself to polyamory. Ed and I did this twice with the same couple. We still Play with them, yet we realized that solo overnights were creating an emotional bond on a level we did not want to deal with. They also realized the same thing. I have my source for love, I married him.