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I'm going to be blunt. Retarded is a turn off. So while under ideal circumstances I don't think there is anything wrong with it (and note I said ideal circumstances), I would not play with such an individual. Its hard enough dealing with some of the issues that non-clinically retarded people have with their swinging as it is.

Originally Posted by MrMrsSmith First - do you view the vanilla world the same way that we view some of the friends that we have just mentioned? Couples form and stay together for all sorts of reasons. The division of the world into swingers and vanilla is a convenient dichotomy, but strikes us overly simplistic. We know couples who are blissfully celibate. We know others who fight except when they fuck. What strikes us as characteristic of successful relationships is the priority that each puts on the other's happiness. That happiness can be sexual, spiritual, material, other, or combinations thereof. What sets swingers and their successful relationships apart is an abiding belief in the strength of that relationship independent of (physical) sexuality.

I have got to get MrsCE22 on here for this one. Last year she made it her mission to learn how to give the best blow jobs after I made mentioned that a partner gave a great bj. I already thought my wife gave great blow jobs, but I have to admit she has blown my mind (pun intended) with what she has learned to do. I cannot tell you all the techniques she uses but here are a few. When she starts before I have any erection at all it is incredible. She gets very active with her tongue and it sends chills up my spine. Licks from bottom to top, flicking her tongue left to right Gentle nibbles, and sometimes not so gentle, all along my shaft, - it is not IN her mouth, she is positioned more like she is playing the harmonica rather than sucking on a lollipop, if that makes sense. She deep throats - something about the pressure from the back of her throat really feels good. She REALLY deep throats - she will lie on her back with her head hanging off the bed, like she is looking at the wall, and is really able to go deep AND I am in perfect position to play with her breast and pussy. She applies a good bit of pressure with her tongue, flicking it back and forth all around the base of my penis, like the soft spot between my leg and abdomen. It almost tickles, but it drives me wild. She REALLY sucks it, I don't mean just puts it in her mouth, I mean REAL suction, particularly towards the head. She will create a great deal of suction and then pull back so that I pop out of her mouth making "pop" noise when the suction breaks. The pressure on the nerves around the head is intense and fantastic. Enthusiasm!! Her BJ's are great and she REALLY likes giving them, but there are times when she is so gung ho to have it in her mouth it is unreal. When she wants to suck it is great, when she is craving to suck it, it is out of this world. Those are just a few of her techniques that I can describe. Like I said I hope she comes on here and gives her point of view, because she gives the most incredible bj's ever.