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Yep, we do have differing opinions on what bisexuality is. He recognizes there is a double standard and even admits to being obstinate in his stance on this topic. I can't change the way he feels - feelings are not right or wrong, they just exist. As a part of a couple, I foremost must respect his feelings and honor his wishes in this respect. He is softening his position a bit, which in my opinion is a move in the right direction - albeit a small step. I am certain this will continue to be a source of discussion on and off and based on the replies to this thread, we have agreed to modify our approach. The preference itself will never change and I respect that boundary in our swinging activities. I can understand his point of view, despite whether or not I agree with it wholeheartedly. We learn as we go, learn from experiences as well as from listening (reading) others' opinions. Heck, we've only been doing this 1.5 years and already we know so much more about ourselves and our desires than we did in the beginning. We work through bumps in the road together, sometimes agreeing to disagree. That's what marriage is all about - acceptance, compromise, and communication.

It has been my experience that when a guy takes his time and uses vibrators, getting a girl to accept and actually enjoy anal sex has always been easy. Using a vibrator on her while licking and sucking her pussy really gets a woman excited. I like to make a woman cum at least twice before I enter her. I get her on her hands and knees with her legs spread very wide. By introducing a vibrator again, this time in her ass, she gets to enjoy the sensations. By sliding 3 fingers in her in place of the vibrator, I can spread her open as much as I need to penetrate her. Keeping the movements slow and steady, I get her to lie down on her stomach, slowly rolling her over on her back and once she is comfortable, I work another vibrator in her vagina using my body to keep it inside her. Occasionally, I lie on my back with her over me in a 69 position. While she goes down on me, I can work a vobrator in her front and back and let her experience triple penitration.

HA!HA! I had a drill that when the subject of giving oral sex to a woman would come up he would always say, "Let me tell you, Jody knows how to eat pussy!" and then walk away. Plenty of guys that were against it could not wait to get home to go down on their girlfriend or wife.