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i have run across a ton of couples who only do MFF stuff. honestly, after doing this for a long time, i stopped playing with couples like that. i found they wanted a living sex toy and didnt really give a damn what i wanted and/or they were MFF only because there were issues, and even doing that caused more and i would wind up in the middle. now i only go after couples that full swap with other couples as well. i dont know a lot that only do MMF, but i do know plenty who are open to it in addition to the other stuff. So, no, neither is unusual or anything. You'll have no issue finding men for MMF...finding reliable, good guys, might be harder. finding a single bi woman who is drama free and not flaky will be hard, but if you become friends with a couple, you might be able to do something where you guys switch off for 3somes sometimes.

Yes, I can see how this goes, because we often ask anyone new we meet, regardless of age, "Have you been here before, have you been to other clubs?" When they ask why you can just say, "We're relatively new to this." Then they might ask what your experience has been. Your age doesn't have to come into the conversation at all. I can see how that's a turn-off when you say, to paraphrase, "I just turned legal." We would do a double take if someone told us that. Try being less front and center about your age and see what happens.