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Wife and I started out swinging about 13 years ago, but it was just so hard finding a couple that we both were into, that we evolved into just playing separately most of the time. Just wondering how others got into it? Did you start out with open relationship? Or something else like our situation?

I'm sorry this is off topic, but I've been seeing this assumption A LOT around here lately. In my experience, age has had nothing to do with how attentive a man is to my needs. My husband is the youngest I've been with (not counting high school days), and he is the most attentive man I've ever seen to all of the women he is with whereas I've had brief contact with a few men over 40 and every single one has been in a hurry to get his dick in. I'm not trying to be rude or hijack the thread or anything, but why is it assumed that because a man is young he is more likely to be inconsiderate of his partner's needs and if he is "older" he will be considerate? And what age is considered older? Maybe THAT's the problem that I'm having here.