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Since several people, myself include, have made reference to polyamory and denied this very statement, I can only assume that you have not actually paid attention to all the responses. Because they will find out... and when they find out, if you have not told them, then that will absolutely, and without any doubt or question, cause hurt and problems. Telling them might cause a bunch of hurt and problems. Not telling them absolutely will. When this happens, don't come back and expect sympathy from me.

I'm just a hick Okie and I don't pretend to be an expert on swinger etiquette, but I don't think you owe someone who is trying to mislead you anything, including discretion. Outing him was a service to the community. Anyone, in my opinion, who is entering the lifestyle should know that he is obligated to show proof that he is what he says he is. That he wasn't shows that just doesn't get it and is probably not married at all or is trying to cheat on his wife. I disagree with those who said, "Fuck him!" I say, "Don't fuck him!" Alura Sent from Florida on White Fox's obnoxious PC.