Don't try to be a hero....I have no toubles with my wife but sometimes at a party I may feel some pressure. I started using a supplement or some prescription for the positive results. Since then I don't go to a party without it......still don't use it at home, but when the time is upon you at a party why not have a little turbo boost. After all it's not just about you, it's also about making your partner have a good time too....