We are in France so it's probably not applicable:
netechangisme.com A pay site. The first site we signed with and still the best for getting results, the people there seem to be motivated and experienced.
nouslibertins.com A pay site Much better functionality, really well designed site and a joy to use. You can leave you private photos open to other people for fixed periods of time, a history of who you've visited, historic of all chats, really good. But seems to have lots of chat and never gets to real meets. Also a high proportion of newbies.
adopteunmec.com. Free for women, men pay. Men can only contact women who first contact them. The site is based on the concept of a supermarket, the men are the product, the women add or remove them from their shopping carts. Intended as a dating site it also has women who are looking for "friends with benefits" Since Fiona and I now occasionally meet solo I have got to play with some really lovely women here.
For economy reasons we can't justify running three pay sites every month so we will drop adopteunmec and nouslibertins. The women I have met and am currently chatting to can continue via MSN. Also to be realistic there just isn't time to play with all the people who we fancy!! We should concentrate on giving the best of ourselves to the great people we have already met.