Ok, I think we all know the original poster on this thread is long gone and likely never to come back.... but since the thread is still here.
I think this is just amazing. True, wonderful and something I agree with 100%, but really, really amazing. The idea that swinging and cheating are diametrically opposed ideals is a concept that I would really love to see explored.
I think cheating is about lying, concealment and hidden emotion while swinging is about honesty, openness and trust. I would love to hear what other folks think about this.