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Go ahead! Do it! Have sex behind your wife's back, be selfish and get yours. Who cares about what other people think or says...especially your wife. She doesn't know how much freaky fun she's missing out on anyway. Besides, she's holding you back. Let your "Freak flag fly". She'll never find out, and if she does, so what! What you guys have together ain't shit compared to that fine piece of ass on the side...right!? She wants to give it to you anyway. Dude, seriously...it kinda sucks that total strangers care more about your relationship then you do. Trust me, whatever you're thinking and planning, is NOT worth it. I know it's hard not having your way, or not hearing what you want to hear. For a second, think about the repercussions if your wife finds out you basically said, FUCK WHAT SHE THINKS...I'M DOING WHAT I WANT!! Bottomline it's NOT worth it. Trust me. Been there, done that. Good Luck!

Cheating is not subjective. Every time I have heard that statement it came from a cheater. Go ahead, have sex with the couple without your wife's knowledge or permission. Then tell her it was only sex, not cheating, because it was not emotional or romantic. Let us know what she and her lawyer say. While you may not agree with this communities morality, ethics, or differentiating between swinging and cheating, you did come here and ask advice. Take it or leave it. We share everything with our spouses, yet you call us hypocritical for not telling the general public what we do, while you contemplate having sex with another couple behind your wife's back. Now that is irony. Focus. Okay here is some focus for you. Grow a pair and ask the other couple if they are swingers and if they are interested in playing. If they are, ask your wife if you can have sex with them. Then you will know and can decide for yourself if you should have sex with them. That way you don't have to suffer the derision of a bunch of hypocrites. Focused enough?

I don't know about Baptists, but I do know this weekend when my wife and I are having hot sex with another couple we won't have to worry about what would happen if the other one found out. We won't have to think about how our marriage might be destroyed because one of us fucked someone without the other person's knowledge or consent. And yes, I do expect there will be a couple of "Oh Gods!" during that time as well. So maybe this atheist has a little Baptist in him after all. It's only fair I suppose, since chances are I've put a some atheist into one or two Baptists over the last few years.