Leaderboard

I'll bite but please, take my thoughts with a grain of salt since I don't play with single males and only have a hall pass when Mr. Sunbuckus gives me one. Unless you two have open hall passes for anyone, call it an open marriage, I would be wary of this one. Obviously, he would prefer to play with your one-on-one, which is why he asked. I'm not sure how other couples who play with single males feel or what they prefer to do but I am sure the majority use single males for threesomes. In my opinion, this guy doesn't really understand the couple dynamic of adding others in their sexy time and respecting them as a couple. I think he wants to play with as many women as he can, possibly separately. *shrugs* But like I said, it's just my opinion and I don't have too much experience with the single males in the LS. I don't know if it's poor protocol to ask up front but I think it definitely shows what his play preference is without you learning down the road as a secret motive.

There I said it. I see there seems to be some forum angst over using this sort of language (or the term share my wife) in a few posts lately. This denotes ownership and I fully claim it. We are a married couple, we made promises to each other, and in those promises was the idea that our sexuality was now tied together. As long as it is tied together any sex she has outside of our relationship is truly allowed by me. I can revoke it at any time. If she chooses to ignore this and goes a head with it anyways she is in breach of those promises we made and it would be grounds for dissolving our relationship. You can say we are joined, bonded, intertwined or any other more romantic but less pejorative term but it doesn't change it, I OWN her ass and I decide who gets to touch it as long as she wishes to be with me. This does not mean I can force her to have relations with other people, but it does mean I have a say in who those other people are. If they make me uncomfortable in any way I can pull the plug and she will just have to live with it. As should be obvious but I think I'll need to state this goes BOTH ways. She ALLOWS me. If she pulls the plug on a couple, thats it, I don't get to have sex with that other woman ever again. If they make her uncomfortable in any way, well I'll just have to live with it. If I choose to ignore that, she has grounds to permanently terminate our relationship. We are NOT just people living together and raising kids together, who are free to go their own way without responsibility to each other. To be poetic we are now of one body, and WE must both decide how those bodies get used and if they get used. We must both agree or there is no more argument.

This wasn't meant to be a debate on Christianity...if you have nothing of value to add, or can't post thought provoking thoughts without snark, please refrain from posting in a thread directed at Christians.