LOL quite the statement to make to someone you don't know, someone who has given you a TINY WINDOW into her world, and who you've asked zero clarifying questions to. In addition to that, what a HORRIBLY terrible thing to suggest... marriage is hard work, but worthwhile work. We've had our ups and downs, but you know what? We've stayed - as love is a choice, first and foremost - and we're together forever because we want to be... good bad or ugly.
Thank you to those of you who have taken the time to give advice. I truly appreciate it all.
I think that I have discovered that this jealousy thing is merely a symptom to a bigger issue... and that is that sex is the ONLY way I know how to connect to my husband. We don't HAVE a deep emotional connection... because I am a VERY emotionally charged person, and he is my polar opposite. This is something him and I need to work through - and in the meantime, if sex IS the only way we can connect - then we won't be giving that away to anyone else.
Thanks again for the insight folks...