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What about the myriad of other people who struggle to find single bi females? They're all hanging out with the wrong class of women? They're all misogynistic and bitter?

one thing in particular comes to mind

All due respect Judy..every post I created this morning was in direct response to an open ended comment or question. AS for the "last word thing"...That's never my intent, and in fact is just the opposite, I welcome response and discourse. That is what discussion is in MHO When a subject is beat to death...I have tried the 'lets agree to disagree thing", as I did in THIS thread...it wasn't me who continued. If I ignore comments as in Chicup's rant where he simply repeated himself I am called pompous, if I reply (as I did to his thinly veiled personal attack) I am called argumentative...sheesh !!!! What's a boy to do????

Too many words...I got bored after "and then", and stopped reading They arev easy to find, but they don't generally respond well to mysoginists Try hanging out with a better class of women, you won't be so bitter

There are a lot of places here where you'll see something along the lines of "swinging exposes cracks in our relationships and in our inner selves." I think the situation here may be one of the latter sorts of cracks. You say you're competitive and it appears you've decided your wife's playmate for the night was better, which - if I understand the rules of competition - means you lost. (Btw, I don't think so, nobody else who has reponded thinks so, but I do suspect that you do) That has to suck for you, but the thing is that it's just the voices in your own head talking and has nothing whatsoever to do with what actually happened. I think every woman who posts here who is happy with her partner will tell you that sex with him is always going to be better than it is with any playmate. No matter how skillful, no matter how many orgasms we have, no matter how prolonged the experience with a playmate, our partners are our home and nobody else compares.