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Yeah? You might. So what. This is an example of what we're all nattering on about here. Swinging is a shared activity (rather than an expression of personal greed for more pussy/cock), and that includes the emotions that come up during it (I'd write that in all caps, but yelling is a violation of the TOS). If y'all can't share authentic feelings and deal with them lovingly and responsibly, without protecting personal turf by invoking the no-possession clause, then you are a trainwreck waiting to happen. While each partner derives both individual and shared pleasure, it isn't an individual activity. That means you don't shrink from the feelings that come up, whether they're yours or your partner's.