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I just started following this thread now, and something you said in your first post really catches my attention and leads me to believe that this situation may repeat itself over and over. You said when you wanted to talk about rules and boundaries that she was not into this, and wanted to figure things out as you/she went. This is fine if you are both willing to accept that in the process of figuring things out as you go, there will be missteps. If she has limits on what she is comfortable with you doing she should be obliged to share them with you. I can fully appreciate that she may not have known she had limits and it took seeing you having sex with another woman to realize that she wanted you to have boundaries. But now she knows. She owes it to you to have the conversation she wasn't willing to have last time. Otherwise I fear this drama will repeat over and over. This is an ideal time for you to negotiate the terms of your relationship, as opposed to later, whe she is angry at you you for crossing another line you sis not know existed.