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Just had another conversation this weekend with my wife about my fantasy of seeing her fuck another man, and she was a little bothered that it may be because I want to prove she is desirable, and she felt a little insecure that I was not that into her looks or our sex life. I reassured her that that was absolutely not the case and that I just have a fetish/fantasy to watch her get fucked. I told her I think she is very attractive and our sex life is great and I am absolutely not bored with our sex life or her! I told her I like to watch her receive pleasure and I think it would be a huge turn on to see her getting pleasured from another person. I am a voyeur/exhibitionist I feel. I also told her I think it would be very hot to see how turned on she would get from another person and to watch her cum with another person. All of that having been said, in all honesty, I think there is an aspect of validation and knowing that other people wants something you have. What do you all think? Is that part of the reason you swing? Do you like to know someone else thinks your wife/partner is hot and wants to fuck them....so therefore it validates the way you feel about your partner. Is that a bad thing?