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We saw an ad for an Anything But Clothes party. The ad had a picture of a girl wearing a little strategically placed crime scene tape. Short of going naked (which is fun but not very creative), what would you wear? Maybe we'll try out the answer we like best (talk about lacking creativity on our part)!

This is a diary entry that I also shared elsewhere about a week ago. Someone suggested that I should post about it here. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for a little more than 5 1/2 years together. At this point, we have kind of grown weary of the BS that you have to go through when meeting people online, meeting people at parties who later turned out to have relationship issues and one night stands with single males - which was fun but gets old after awhile. Don't get me wrong... we are swingers... but we just felt like we needed something a little different. About 2 weeks ago - right after Christmas, we were discussing this and my wife - who is bi - said... "it would be so awesome if we could just meet a girlfriend" and I liked that idea as well. We have had a couple of FFM threesomes over the years but never a "girlfriend" who we could pamper. Someone who we could travel with... or just chill and watch a movie or go to dinner with... a friend and a lover. This is where it gets crazy... the very next day, a very cute girl - who is quite a bit younger than we are - sent us a message on one of the sites where we are members. At first, we suspected it was just like all the other messages that we had received from single guys posing as single females... (wtf is up with that, btw). We messaged her and asked if we could do a phone call and lo and behold... she turned out to be very real. She had never been to a swinger party or had a threesome or even been with another female before. We were amazed to say the least. Unfortunately, we had a lot going on that week and the following week we were going on vacation... so we asked her if we could meet on Friday the 18th. She agreed... the date was set. Over the next couple of weeks, we probably sent a few thousand text messages back and forth... lots of flirting and getting to know each other. We talked on the phone a couple of times, but texting seemed to be the chosen form of communication. We learned that she was a very sweet and intelligent girl who grew up in a small town out west. She is very sure of herself and very mature. She has a career that she loves and is one of the most happy and positive people that we have met. The 18th finally came... it seemed like it had been an eternity. We were nervous and excited and so was she. We had a wonderful dinner and then went to a strip club because she had never been to one and wanted to check it out. After she received her first table dance... she was ready to go - like a fire had started inside of her... so we went back to the hotel. The experience was just mind blowing. We had the most amazing sex of our lives and she was just as intoxicated with the experience. So much so, that we decided to meet again last night. So... last night we met for dinner again and after dinner we took her to our local club. She was blown away by that experience as well... and we were making out and touching. There were 2 couples next to us that were going at it pretty hot and heavy... it was a huge turn on for her so we decided to go back to our place. Amazingly, we had an even better experience last night. WOW Jan 26 UPDATE: Things are going great! This is our first poly type experience and so far we are just amazed at how well we fit together. We are all still in "pinch me cuz I have to be dreaming" mode. The only "bummer" is that she lives an hour away from us but we talk a lot. On Wednesday, she and I had our first one on one date (it is cycle week for my wife) - which is entirely something new for my wife and I. We have played separate before... but always in the club (on-premises) or at a house party. We had dinner at a great little Mexican place I know and then went and hung out with some good friends of my wife and I for awhile (who also own and run our swinger club). After visiting our friends for awhile, we went back to her place and had awesome sex. Tonight, she is coming over for dinner and a movie and this coming week my wife will have her first one on one date with her and they are so excited. My wife has been like a giddy schoolgirl all week.