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Theres stuff my wife has done in the past that Im sure I don't know about. And most certainly.....vice versa. But, at the end of the day, as long as we are together, it doesent matter. If she wants to let me in on things....fantastic. But, shes more than welcome to do it at her own pace. The only thing that matters to me is our life together. Not what happened or didn't happen prior. The things that we do in the past make us what we are in the present. Whatever she has done has shaped her into the woman you care about. Just take it as that and appreciate yalls time together.

We've found that the gay areas of the cities are best for meeting singles for threesomes. They arnt just gay people who go there, quite a lot of straight and bi people go as well. My husband is totally straight we just find it easy to meet single men for this sort of thing from going to these sort of bars and clubs if swinger clubs arnt your thing. From my experience with your idea its very hit or miss. A lot of men in some way or another simply wont do it either because they believe its wrong or when they come to put the condom on they will go soft then ask if the husband can leave the room so he can perform. You might want to try just letting her be alone with him, she tell him she is cheating on you because it is surprising how many men get turned on from fucking a woman who is spoken for and cheating behind her partners back, when really she could just be doing it because he allows her to. With some men ive told them im in an open relationship/marriage, they have always been cool with that. Its after we get talking i see what his level of open/dirty mindedness he has, before i tell him my husband likes to watch or participate then i check his response then i might ask him if its something he is interested in doing.

Or go to church and ask God for guidance, lol! I can understand the desire for seeking thrills, which is why I am exploring this subject but there are so many ways to do this without sex. Working out in the gym, adventure travel, exploring the world etc...