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Great topic! I find that people who had this restriction that I knew it was all about compartmentalization for them. Like some how if there was no kissing then they could "deal" with the intimacy of everything else. There was one girl I knew for a while that told me all the time kissing was for her sweetie and that other stuff was okay. Well, as I got to know her over time we got closer and one night at a club we found ourselves kissing. We had never played prior to that. That was weird for me because after what she told me I had to ask myself was she now falling in love with me? I knew she was not but clearly what happened was that she accepted me and grew comfortable enough with me to trust me past her boundaries. So I have come to realize that the no kissing thing is just people being people and working to protect themselves from what they consider a threat of some sort. People are just doing what they have to do for themselves to deal with the intensity of these experiences. I could never swing without kissing, for me the chemistry is in the kiss. I don't care about having sex with anyone unless I have that mind blowing kiss me now chemistry. I'm not everyone and clearly I'm not FOR everyone so like these folks that don't kiss I stick to playing with those who work for me and my turn ons..