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Just had to rant a bit. How sucky is it when you dress up to meet a couple, only to be met with track pants or work clothes? We ALWAYS dress up whenever we are about to meet a couple. Especially the Mrs., she does her hair, make-up, sexy clothes etc. We recently met a couple where they commented that if they had known we were dressing up they would have dressed up as well . Luckily this was the first time in a long time this has happened. But back a few years ago the Mrs. would get mad because she would spend the time dressing up, only to be greeted with jeans and a t-shirt. Apparently it's not common knowledge to dress up when you are meeting up with a couple that you might have sex with?

It would seem to me that even if was a pool gathering that you should look your best, shaved, well I am always shaved, smell nice, etc, and even after I would freshen up hoping for more!

Hi your issues with swinging is EXACTLY I repeat EXACTLY the same as we had with our kids and family - we lived in Chelmsford at the time. What we realised was that as our swinging activities were our little secret just between the 2 of us , it brought us so much closer together even though we were and still so happily married and in love. Swinging has also enabled us to meet so many very nice and caring people and to view the world as a much nicer place than what we were seeing, the same as you, so many disfunctional families , kids on the street etc. We have continued in the lifestyle and really enjoy it both sexually and friendship and long may it continue. I suggest you carry on and enjoy everything and put the guilty feelings to one side and remember that most people although they wont admit it are interested in swinging. kisses Avril