I'm so with you OC...it's odd that when you mention you are bi, as a male, suddenly the sound of doors slamming is so prolific! I read, on a previous post (long story) that bi males in the swing world are frowned upon! I MEAN REALLY!!! WTF here!?!?!?! I've had previous 'experiences' (albeit limited) but if a woman can be bi and it is TOTALLY accepted and the NORM then why is there such a great leap of faith that a guy, and his woman, are ok with it and it isn't the 'norm'? I mean come on for crying out loud it's just freakin' sex people!
Look my take is this: If you'll kiss a woman after she sucked a cock...guess what you just tasted one vicariously so you may as well suck one yourself...trust me it isn't that bad! If you ever have gone down on a woman after a dick has been in her...guess what!?!?! You got it same thing applies! I don't like guys unless I'm beating them at golf, working on the lawn (which btw I have a BEAUTIFUL lawn!!! and yes my neighbors hate me and I love it!) or I'm sucking the flavor of a woman off of them and then I'm happy and love them.
Too each his own and we ALL should get that but damn if I'm going to ask my wife to suck and fuck some other dude and swallow/accept his cum then damn as a REAL man I should be able to do the same!
Just my thought! Don't hate....