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Everyone in the lifestyle faces rejection. Rejection is good in that it shows that you're at least out there trying. We're somewhat experienced and have had our share of rejection, yet it still stings. Don't take it personally and don't speculate about the reason. Craigslist is the land of the trolls and is the absolute worst place to try to find a playmate. Consider SLS where you can see certifications and pictures. Even as a free member you shouldn't have a problem finding a respectful single male. Try screening and contacting the guys yourself and leave your wife out of it. When you have two or three good looking guys that want to meet, show her their profiles and pictures and ask her which one she wants to play with. She won't even have to know if several others turned you down. Her confidence will shoot up and you'll both have a great time.

Hi everyone, I have a theory for the ladies. Sooo my husband and I did our first full bi-swap. It was VERY erotic and hot. I realized something interesting though about women and bisexuality. My experience with the other wife was great! Often times I hear women say "women know women better." I have to say being with a woman as a woman did feel different but not in a physical way. I thought a lot about it and here is what I think. Girls are very mean to each other. I know why ladies but seriously I think we really hurt each others self-esteem a lot. I think this is why female bisexuality is so common. We want to be respected and feel support from other women. When I was with the other wife I felt like every cruel thing others girls had done to me was expunged. All I could do was give my body over to this woman for the appreciation it deserved. It was a rush of emotion (not the attached kind). When I was younger I was always criticized by other girls for mild acne, big feet, and my style. Although I've cut a lot of those people out of my life I feel I am still scarred by that. When the other wife and I played with each other it was just amazing to accepted by her in a sexually powerful way. I do of coarse prefer men way more but I feel this woman filled in something that had been missing. Even though this woman was an experienced bi-wife she didn't make me cum any harder than any guy I've been with. My husband of coarse takes the prize though! What do you all think?

I read an interesting article in the Journal of Human Sexuality. (Forgive me I'm a scientist by trade and my first reaction to a topic is always research.) The author did a research study on swingers. Bi-sexual women are overrepresented in the lifestyle by some ridiculous percent compared to the general population. He suggested because bi-sexual women found the swinging community a safe place to express their bisexuality especially when they are in stable hetero relationships. In other words there's more bi women in swinging because they can be bi without shocking the PTA.